child in a hat rides in a toy car through a grove of trees
11 Jul
babies, children, just for fun, parenting zen

Road tripping with kids

The summer is a great time to travel with the family, but with airline prices and pandemic worries, flights may not seem the most appealing way to journey at the moment. Instead, a good old road trip can be a great way to get a change of scenery without as much hassle. Road tripping as a family can be a great way to travel. You get to go at your own pace and avoid the stress of air travel. However, hitting the road with kids can come with its own complications! So here are some useful tips to help you plan a fun and easy road trip with the kids this summer! 

Set expectations ahead of time! 

  • If you haven’t done many long car rides with the kids before, you can help them mentally prepare by discussing the plan and what it’ll be like in advance. 
  • Make it something to look forward to! Keep it positive and highlight some planned stops along the way or the fun final destination!
  • Be sure to emphasize any challenging situations you anticipate or road trip rules like using the potty before leaving and at stops, keeping hands to ourselves (if you have siblings that tend to bicker), etc. 
  • Let the kids help choose and pack their car supplies depending on their age! What toys do they want to bring? What snacks?
    • Obviously, you get the final say and should give them parameters, so you don’t end up bringing a gallon-sized tub of gummy bears and every toy car they own!
    • For example, “Pick 2 activities and 3 toys you would like to bring.” “Do you want to bring apples or oranges?” “Cheese sticks or peanut butter crackers?”

Strategies for planning departure time and stops:

  • Best time to leave:
    • One strategy is to either leave early when the kids might fall back to sleep for a bit or to leave just before nap time. 
    • This can backfire if kids get over tired, though. 
    • For tricks to help your kiddo sleep in the car, check out “How to encourage car naps” below. 
    • If you opt not to leave early in the morning, try to plan some active time before hitting the road to use up some of that energy!
  • Planning pit-stops:
    • Every kid and every drive is different. Sometimes it is better to keep going if kids are happy or sleeping and see how many miles you can get under your belt. Other times, it may be more important to stop frequently to keep spirits up, get the wiggles out and prevent major meltdowns. 
    • As a general rule of thumb, it is best to stop every 2-3 hours at least to give your little ones a break from the car seat. If you have a newborn or young infant in the mix, you won’t have much choice as you’ll have to stop every couple of hours to feed them.
    • It’s helpful to scope out potential stops beforehand and choose scenic spots with space for kids to run around or playgrounds.

Prepare for messes!

  • Car messes are the worst, but they will happen when road tripping with kids despite your best efforts! Between spills, potty accidents, and bouts of car sickness, the possibilities are endless. 
  • Bring basic cleaning supplies: paper towels or extra wipes, spray cleaner, garbage bags, and at least one handy change of clothes, maybe more if you have an infant! 

Keep them busy!

  • Even though we all hope the littles will just sleep, it doesn’t always work out that way.
  • Pack a few different activities to keep them entertained and avoid the dreaded chorus of “I’m boooored!” 
  • If your family uses screens/tablets occasionally, road trips are a great time to bust them out. Download some kid-friendly movies or educational shows and games. 
  • Other screen-free ideas are books, playdough or silly putty, water wow coloring books, busy books, magnet puzzles/games, simple crafts for older kids, etc. 
  • You might want to invest in an organizational tray that attaches to the car seat, so kiddos have a place to set their activities and snacks.

Snacks!

  • Have we mentioned snacks? Snacks are always a good idea, but can make or break the experience when road tripping with kids!
  • Not only does hunger tend to strike at inconvenient times, but snacks also occupy little hands and keep spirits up! 
  • Pack a variety of healthy snack options and beverages. Maybe don’t go overboard on drinks if you want to avoid excessive potty stops, though! 
  • For snacks, think healthy and satisfying like fruit, cheese, nuts (if your child is over 4 because of choking risk,) crackers, etc.

How to encourage car naps:

Car naps are not guaranteed, but they are definitely appreciated!

  • Incorporate as much of your child’s naptime routine as you can:
    • Sing the same songs,
    • Bring their lovey or blanket,
    • Use a portable white noise machine if they’re used to one at home. And if you don’t typically use one, consider trying it! White noise can greatly help initiate and maintain sleep and also helps with sleeping in different environments. 
  • Make sure the car temperature is comfortable and on the cooler side.
  • Dress them comfortably; consider putting them in lightweight PJs for the drive, take shoes off, etc. 

 

Dealing with Car Sickness:

Car sickness is very common and a frustrating problem for many parents. If your child gets car sickness, try these tips:

  • Give them a light bland snack before the trip.
  • Distract them with stories or music. Screens or books may not be the best choice for children who get car sick.
  • Encourage them to look out the window. For babies, window stickers or toys that suction to the window may encourage them to look outside.
  • Take frequent breaks and allow older children to sit or lie down, give babies a break from the car seat.
  • Talk with your healthcare provider about medications like diphenhydramine (benadryl,) or dramamine that may help. They may cause drowsiness and other side effects so be sure to discuss with your healthcare provider prior to use.

Car seat safety:

Proper car seat safety is always essential, but road tripping with kids is an excellent excuse to ensure yours is up to snuff.

  • Does your child still fit within the weight and/or height requirements? 
  • Has the seat been involved in a crash, even minor? If so, it should be replaced. 
  • Remember, rear-facing is the safest so keep them in this position as long as possible. Kids are flexible, so even if their legs are bent, it is not as uncomfortable as it looks!
  • Go here for more information and tips on car seat use and safety. 

 

Woman hiking with baby in hiking carrier looking out at half dome in yosemite.
30 Jun
babies, children, just for fun, outdoor fun, parenting zen, safety first

Hiking with babies and kids

Hiking with kids is a great way to spend time in nature, get some exercise and have fun together. Time outdoors has physical and emotional health benefits and is good for the whole family! You might decide this is the summer to explore your local hiking trails, or perhaps you’re planning a family vacation and want to get the whole crew out on the trails. Great! Hiking with kids might sound daunting, though. What do you need to bring? How far can they go? What if they hate it? Don’t fear! Read on for our best tips and gear list for hiking with kids, whether you’re a hiking pro or brand new! 

What gear do you need?

Fortunately, you don’t need much for hiking, especially when you’re starting out. Still, it is good to have some essentials and consider additional back country supplies if you start to get into bigger adventures.

Dress for the weather and bring layers!

Remember, there is no bad weather – only bad gear! 

  • Invest in quality outdoor clothing and accessories for kiddos, especially when it comes to cold-weather gear – if they’re comfortable, they’ll enjoy it more!
  • In warmer months, lightweight but full-coverage UV clothing is a great way to protect little ones’ from sunburns and bug bites! 
    • There are many options for stretchy, lightweight footy PJs that work great for babies. 
  • Don’t forget hats and sunglasses for added sun protection!
  • Especially for little ones, it’s a good idea to throw a backup outfit in the pack and maybe an extra shirt for you! Spit-ups and blowouts are always only a hiccup away!

Footwear: 

  • Comfortable shoes with good grippy bottoms and protection from stubbing toes on rocks will do the trick! 
  • It is worth looking into hiking-specific shoes if you are doing more rugged hikes.
  • Hiking sandals are a great option if you plan to hike somewhere warm with lots of water. The kids can tromp around in streams and puddles, and you don’t have to worry about shoes getting wet.

Hiking carriers:

  • For babies and toddlers, it is worth looking into a hiking carrier to carry them more comfortably. 
  • When they are very young a soft carrier or regular infant carrier is fine, but as they get more weight and you do longer hikes you’ll want something with more support.
  • Even if your child is an older toddler and walking, it’s not a bad idea to have a carrier in case they get tired, and you need to carry them out.
  • There are tons of good options these days for every price bracket. 
  • We recommend heading to your local outdoor gear shop and trying some out! 
  • Look for packs that are comfortable and will grow with your child. Comfortable back straps, a waist strap, and a chest clip provide extra comfort and support. 
  • Bonus if they have a removable shade cover and a generous storage pocket or two.

First aid kit/safety supplies:

  • Building a simple hiking first aid kit is a smart investment; bandages, ointment, pain medicines (acetaminophen or ibuprofen,) tweezers. 
  • You can add to it if you decide to do more extensive hikes or overnights like backpacking.
  • Don’t forget sunscreen and bug spray!
  • Baby wipes can serve a variety of purposes so also a good thing to have on hand!

Consider these items for longer or more adventurous hikes!

  • Headlamp
  • Extra layers
  • An emergency blanket and/or shelter
  • Compass
  • GPS device (many have satellite capabilities for use out of cell range)
  • Quick shelter
  • Matches
  • Water filter tabs or filter straw

Tips for hiking with kids!

Start small!

  • Whether you’re getting started hiking with a baby in a pack or older child hiking on their own, it is a good idea to start with shorter hikes to keep it positive and build confidence!
  • How far can kids go? 
    • This depends on many factors, but a general rule of thumb is a mile per year of age. That being said, some kids can do more, especially if you work up to it! 
    • Start with shorter hikes and incorporate lots of snack breaks!

Bring lots of snacks and water!

  • Seriously, you can’t have too many snacks and bring plenty of water.
  • It’s best to bring more than you think you’ll need!
  • Pack various healthy options to fuel your little hikers; fruit, nuts, cheese, crackers, fruit pouches and maybe some special treats for when they (or you) need a little extra motivation to get to the finish line.

Think like a kid and let the little ones lead sometimes!

  • For bigger kiddos doing some walking, it is great to let them set a pace and explore! 
  • Don’t forget, it is not just about a certain distance or destination after all, but the joy of the journey! 
  • Kids are naturally curious and want to check out their surroundings, look at bugs and plants and find the perfect walking stick. Instead of rushing them, follow their lead! 
  • Incorporate games like “I spy,” or nature treasure hunts to keep everyone engaged and happy! 

Be flexible and have fun!

Do not, I repeat, do not get it in your head that you will complete the entire hike that you have envisioned every time. If you do, fantastic, major win! If not, you get credit for just getting out and trying, and there is always a next time!

  • Embrace the chaos – try not to sweat the small stuff!
    • You’re bound to forget things, messes, and cranky kids and parents will happen. 
  • Some adventures will inevitably be cut short, but you’ll learn something every time. 
  • Try to end on a high note if you can and call it a day before everyone is overtired and you’re out of snacks. 

For more great info on hiking as a family and tips on supplies check out these resources:

REI – Hiking with kids

National Park Service – Hiking with kids

Kids jumping into a pool on a summer day.
10 Jun
children, just for fun, parenting zen

Ten tips for planning your family’s summer with less stress!

Summer is a time for family fun, rest, and relaxation, right? Realistically though, more likely for most of us, school gets out; kids are suddenly home hungry and bored, and you are appointed the summer activities director in addition to your other jobs and responsibilities. Sometimes we find ourselves overwhelmed by summer planning and also feeling guilty for not “making the most of it.” Read on for tips on how to plan the summer as a family.

1. Let go of all of those unattainable expectations!

There is no such thing as the “perfect” summer! As if being a parent these days wasn’t stressful enough, the pressure we are under to make every aspect of our kids’ childhood perfect and memorable can be overwhelming! We’re bombarded with insta-worthy summer vacay pics, absurdly time-consuming activity ideas, and constant reminders that you only get 18 summers with your kids, so don’t mess it up! Here’s the thing, sure, that may be true, but kids don’t need much to have a wonderful and memorable summer. All they need is some time outdoors, time to play, time with friends and family, some time to relax, and that is it! Try not to get sucked into the parent guilt or stuck comparing. There is no right way to plan summer for your family and kids!

Tons of activities? Great! Lots of unstructured free play at home? Awesome! Lots of travel? Fantastic. Staying close to home? Sounds perfect! Spending days with the kids as a family? Sure! Sending them off to camps during the day so you can get work done or enjoy yourself? Do it! The bottom line with most things, especially parenting, is that comparison can be the thief of joy. Decide what works best for you and your family, and then go for it!

2. Stock up on summer supplies!

Make sure you have what you need for spontaneous summer adventures. Stock up on sunscreen, sun hats, bug spray, bike helmets, ensure the kids’ swimsuits fit, etc. If camping is on your list, check that the tent is ready to go and no pieces are missing! Things like this can make or break when the fam gets the sudden inspiration to adventure!

3. Make a summer bucket list with the kids.

This is a fun way to ensure you fit in those things you want to do without letting the summer slip by. Want to go on a family camping trip? Build a tree house? Get a few beach trips in? Make a list together, and if applicable, try to set a date for certain activities since summer has a way of flying by, and you don’t want to miss the chance. Getting the kids involved and enthusiastic about upcoming plans is also great. Ask them if they have any goals for the summer. Maybe there is a new skill they want to learn or a project they’d like to try, and you can help them get started. 

4. Plan out the summer by week.

If planning the whole summer feels daunting, pull out the calendar and plan some activities each week! Whether it’s swim lessons, camps, or family adventures, it can feel more manageable to look at each week instead of the whole summer.

5. Keep a flexible schedule.

Establish some daily routines, but allow for flexibility! You certainly don’t have to keep up the exact same timetable as during the school year. Getting a little laxer with naps, bedtimes, and morning wakeups is normal. However, kids thrive with a certain amount of consistency, so try to have at least a loose schedule. Keep up with the nap and bedtime routine, even if the timing varies. You can also establish new daily rituals for the summer if it works for your fam, like a walk after dinner or a morning park trip. 

6. Don’t fear boredom!

Everyone dreads the “I’m bored” chant all summer. Often we try to plan our family’s summer to avoid it! But the truth is boredom isn’t the enemy. Overplanning kids’ days robs them of the opportunity to direct their play and tap into their creativity. Time to relax and engage in activities of their choosing is a gift. Not only should you not feel bad about not having something planned for them every second of every day, but you’re doing them a favor!

However, they may feel otherwise at times and complain. Instead of immediately coming to their rescue with a plan as activities director, first, try giving them a nudge in the right direction. Say something like, “Being bored can be uncomfortable, but you have excellent ideas! I bet you can come up with something awesome to do! Do you feel like playing outside or inside right now?” 

7. Set aside some quick and easy pastimes for days the kids need more direction.

A stash of emergency at-home activities for rainy days or days without planned family outings can also be a great idea! Even if you do your best to prepare, something can throw you for a loop like canceled plans, rainy days, kids home with a cold, etc. Have a stockpile of easy, fun activities that only come out on days the kids are stuck at home or when the “I’m bored” complaint is on repeat. Kids can get excited about simple things when they’re novel, like coloring books or pages, fresh crayons, puzzles, craft kits, bubbles, water balloons, and playdough.

Also, check out local spots that have fun summer drop-in activities for kids. Your public library is a great place to start! And lastly, one positive aspect of the pandemic is a plethora of online resources with activity ideas for kids, online story times, kids yoga, exciting classes, dance lessons, you name it! There are tons to choose form, but some of our favorites are:

Busy Toddler

The Imagination Tree

Cosmic Kids Yoga

Eventbrite

8. Get kids outside and moving every day!

Extra screen time in the summer is expected and OK. Most of us have fond memories of leisurely summer mornings watching cartoons before heading out to play for the day. Especially if you’re working from home and the kids are around, screen time can be survival, no guilt! But when you can, take advantage of nicer weather and extra daylight and get those kids outside as much as possible! While you’re at it, get yourself out there too!

There are countless benefits to being outdoors, getting sunlight, and daily physical activity. Not only are we all happier and healthier with more exercise and outdoor time, but with any luck, the kiddos will be tired out and much less likely to drive you nuts at bedtime! Plan some regular summer family outdoor time! Active things like swimming, hiking, or biking are excellent, but keeping it simple with free time, playing in the yard, or walking around the block can also be game-changers. Just remember sun protection every day, and don’t forget to reapply!

9. If you’re short on childcare, don’t be afraid to get creative!

As wonderful as summer family time is, you need time to yourself to keep your sanity. And if you are trying to work from home, it is even more crucial. But full-time childcare is not available or accessible to everyone, which can be challenging. As you are planning summer for the family, you may find yourself cobbling things together and wishing you had more help. The good news is, you are probably not the only one in that boat, so consider reaching out to parent-friends. It can be as simple as swapping play date houses with one other family a few days a week or having a small group of parents that takes turns watching each other’s kids. This can be an excellent way for everyone to get a little “time off.”

Consider relatives or neighbors that might enjoy hanging with the kids for a few hours here and there to lighten your load. It’s tough to ask for help, but you’ll be a better, happier parent for it! In a pinch, get kids involved in things you need to do, like errands, yard work, cleaning, or cooking. It may not be as efficient as when you do them yourself, but believe it or not, if you present it the right way, kids can have fun doing almost anything, and the tasks still get done!

10. Lastly, don’t wait for the last minute for those back-to-school “to-dos.”

Back-to-school can sneak up on us, and it can be stressful to ensure everything is ready for the new year. That stress is magnified when it gets down to the wire! As part of your summer planning, consider what your family needs to get done by fall. At the start of the summer, try making a list of the back-to-school to-dos, checkups, school supplies, sports gear, and paperwork, and adding them to your calendar or setting reminders for before the school year. Better yet, check off as many boxes as early as possible!

In our pediatrics office, without fail, the end of summer rolls around, and we are slammed with frantic parents trying to schedule their kids for their last-minute sports physicals or get forms filled out in time for school! We don’t judge; we know how easy it is to forget until the last minute, but do yourself (and your pediatrician’s office) a favor and get those forms and appointments early! 

Now get out and enjoy the summer with your family with less stress; just don’t forget the sunscreen!